Inner Game is based is rooted in your confidence, beliefs and your overall attitude about life. Whether you realise it or not, your attitude is constantly projected to the women you talk to. If you have a strong, assertive and positive attitude, women will naturally be attracted to you. That’s how most naturals get laid. They develop these three aspects of their identity: confidence, beliefs and attitude. When this happens, they begin to feel more confident and they start to behave like they’re the prize, which is exactly what attracts women.
People in general love leaders, especially women. Leaders are naturally attractive because they radiate confidence and not easily concerned with outside criticism. They know exactly what they want and focus their energies on achieving their goals. Learning how to become a leader, how to make people follow you and respect you is essential to leading a successful life.
An observation I’ve made is that charisma does not exist. People do not know how to describe something that is intangible, so they say this person has “charisma”, or “this guy is a charismatic personality”. If you take the time to observe charismatic people, you see that they actually have one big quality in common. They have a frame (or point of view) so strong that people are sucked into their reality. Everything they do reflects an ultra-strong frame that exists inside their individual reality. They tend to have a lot of rules that you must follow when you are around them. They treat themselves with integrity and they absolutely will not tolerate disrespect; in fact they punish it.
You can apply these characteristics to your own life. They are core lessons for living successfully on this planet. Let’s take respect for example: How do you ensure that the people around you show respect for you and your work? First start to respect yourself and your work too. When you start to respect yourself completely, other people will respect you as well. If you don’t respect yourself, why in the world would anyone else? If you treat yourself like shit, trust me, other people will do the same because you are sending a strong signal to the world that shit is exactly what you are.
