Girls love guys who are in control because it radiates confidence. It sub communicates power and that she can rely on this kind of guy. You must learn to become a guy who is always in control of himself and the situations around him.
How do we do this? (more…)
Inner Game is based is rooted in your confidence, beliefs and your overall attitude about life. Whether you realise it or not, your attitude is constantly projected to the women you talk to. If you have a strong, assertive and positive attitude, women will naturally be attracted to you. That’s how most naturals get laid. (more…)
The first parts of this website covered a great deal of this but in addition to fixing your Inner Game you need to view each pick-up without any neediness or expectation. Even if you are lonely, there are tons of girls out there and no particular set is important. Let go of your attachment to “winning”.
“Approach anxiety” as it is called, is not really “anxiety” at all. It is an emotion that has been perverted by society bullshit. When you see a beautiful woman you feel something strong, right? And the hotter she is, the stronger the emotion is. You want deeply from the core of your being to approach the woman to potentially mate with her.
Do you think cavemen perceived this emotion as fear?
So basically, society tells us that we should buy girls drinks and flowers, be polite, be “ourselves”, kiss ass and be an all around “nice guy”. But for some reason when we follow this advice, we get terrible results.
Why?
“I just want to be myself.”
“I don’t want to change to suit other people.”
“I only want women and other people to love me for who I am.”
Here’s the bottom line for pick-up lines, especially at pick-up locations such as bars: No matter what you say, she’s going to KNOW it’s just an excuse for you to talk to her.
First of all, don’t leave your phone number and ask her to call you. Some guys think that make them special because the women have to call them blah, blah, blah but seriously…
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